I need a third party software, API, class, free or commercial that will
let me use tcp/ip with java and c++.  Open source preferred.  This
interface would let me create a client or server connection in java and
a client/server in c++ and they would communicate with each other with
TCP/IP.  I am looking for encryption (but i can extend that), automatic
reconnection when disconnected, hopefully failed, store a queue of data
when disconnected, essentially something reliable.

I would rather get something already created (and i am sure it must
exist somewhere).  I have spent an hour on google with little luck.
any know of something ??